So. OK. Over time I've seen many many discussions such as this one...going on and on ad nauseum. Look. We are Thinking. Human. Beings. (at least most of us). Fair? Not fair? Whatever..... Just. Don't. Take. The. Trade. If. You. Don't. Like. It. Why alla this angst-driven palaver over something that is just up to personal choice?
Imagine you only have a short lunch break and a restaurant puts out a new digital menu every day with 50 pages.
The things you want to order are somewhere on 7 random pages while everything else is a turd sandwich disguised as a decent meal.
Just. Don't. Order. The. Turd. If. You. Don't. Like. It., right?
Well, how long until you just say screw it and order in or brown bag it instead?
Especially if you weren't actually hungry and only went to the restaurant to help out financially?
Whelp. That's my 7-beers deep analogy. Probably sucks but it's too late- you've read it.
Basically, it comes down to this:
I'd love to help out my little neighbor dudes by fulfilling their trade requests, but if they are buried on page 12,15,and 19 under all of the "3-star" cross garbage... well... <ain't nobody got time for that>
Not having a simple filter to hide undesired trades leads to misclicks and/or ignoring the trader altogether in order to avoid the hassle of sidestepping landmines instead of helping neighbors.