I've often wished that Inno would create a button so that each person can just click the button and state what their favorite help is, whether culture, coins or builder, and in what order (so that if builder was full, for example, they could get their second fave). Then, when each player wanted to give neighborly help, they'd just click a big "give help" button ONCE and ALL of their available neighbors and fs members would receive the help they previously designated. Everyone would get exactly what they want, no mistakes, and all of us would avoid the only true tedium (other than FAs) in this whole game. That's on my wish list, but I doubt it will happen.