1st How do you know they aren't playing the same as you? "I'm not visiting Jasix because he doesn't visit me"
2nd If it takes you "hours and hours" to do 100 visits, you're doing it wrong. I'm visiting more than twice that every day.
C You seem to assume that the only reason people visit is for coins. That is not true. Personally I have to do two T3 wholesaler dumps when visiting.
IVth People click on something other than what you indicated? Boo Hoo. At least they visit. And there are several reasons someone might click the wrong thing. If you think about other people a bit you might figure those out for yourself.
And 5 Maybe some people don't visit you because they haven't discovered you yet.
1. That's fine... if they don't want to visit because I don't visit them. I would hate for all my neighbors to visit me because then I would feel the need to visit them back. If that were the case I would have to close at least half of my cities.
2. I already do 100+ visits a day between my FS members and the neighbors who visit me. If I were to visit EVERY neighbor that would be closer to 800 visits a day.. EVEN if each visit only took me 30 seconds (which it doesn't if you actually pay attention and help by clicking what your neighbor has requested) that would be 200 minutes a day or.... 2 hours and 40 minutes. Considering I only have about 3 hours a day I CAN play... that leaves me 20 minutes to socialize, upgrade, trade, arrange my city, recruit, etc etc etc... No thank you. This is a game to relax and have fun with what little free time I do have between work and college.
3. I already do wholesale dumps because I hit max on coins (and very rarely supplies).
(You put this as C in your statement) When someone says they NEED to visit all their neighbors that implies they NEED the coin..or the supplies. Either way if you NEED to visit all of your neighbors; something is lacking in your city.... coin, supplies, goods.
4. If you are going to take the time to visit someone...be respectful and honor their wishes; otherwise the reason for your visit is selfish...just to help yourself and not to help them; so which is it... you are being a good neighbor because you like helping others..or you are being selfish to help yourself. You are not helping me if you click my MH... I don't NEED coin... I need help with culture and my builder. So don't "Boo Hoo" me and tell me to appreciate your selfish behavior when you always click on my MH. FYI When I say "you" I mean general YOU not you; mucksterme. Just don't act like you are doing me (or your neighbor) a favor by visiting and randomly clicking on items ignoring what your neighbor has said they need help with.. you're not helping me.. you're helping yourself.
5. I don't care if someone doesn't visit me because they haven't discovered me; and have never even hinted that I do. I will say when a neighbor visits me and if I cannot visit them yet due to not discovering them... I send them a message thanking them and letting them know I cannot return the favor until I discover their city.
I consider myself a good neighbor; I visit every single neighbor who visits me, I click on whatever they have requested, I trade with neighbors (after FS members) before posting goods, and I even communicate with my neighbors if they have visited me and I can't return the favor yet. And just an FYI... I have visited every single one of my neighbors at some point in time; if I am running low on coin due to a large cost (upgrading usually) I will go visit my neighbors if the need is there.
I just think it's silly to call someone a bad neighbor when they don't visit every single person on their map every day. I give you permission to not visit me if we ever become neighbors; I won't think any less of you because I know this is a game and feel people should play for enjoyment rather than be forced to play to how others think they should.