Manual fighting is only pain, after you done the same fight 10 times, 20 times, 100 times? At some point you don't have to think about your moves anymore and you know what the opposing troops gonna do. All you do then is waiting for slow animation to finally catch up, to what you already knew gonna happen. I liked the fighting in the beginning, but almost only do auto now, because it is painful to wait and watch for no good reason. A simple solution would be higher speed options, for all I care, I would take an option with no animations at all and I don't even need to see what the opponent did.
I feel similarly about events. The fog event is fun for me, because I am thinking while doing it, but the events with 3 chests are no fun at all. I have to think once, which chests are the best for me and then I have to waste 10? minutes to get rid of my event currency without making any decisions in that time, watching slow animations for no good reason (actually worse than work).
Neighbor help is kinda the same, I know what I have to do and it is just tedious clicking.