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Howdy folks,
I'm just wondering what the appropriate wait time is for responses to requests to join fellowships is?
I am currently in limbo as a fellowship I joined had a major drama blowout the day after I joined (I swear it wasn't my fault! Ol' gassy was on his best behavior) and while a good chunk of the ex-members opted to join a half full fs existing on the periphery I chose not to. I'm deathly allergic to drama llamas and just want to play the game in peace.
So, to that end, I've been messaging fellowships that aligned with my goals (10 chests, silver spire, no drama, teamwork approach to achieving etc) and then sit back and wait for a reply.
Problem is I can't tell the difference between being ghosted and AMs who are busy. Some message back and say they're waiting for someone else to message back (their first choice for a spot) and say they'll let me know in due course but how long is due course?
I'm just wondering what the appropriate wait time is for responses to requests to join fellowships is?
I am currently in limbo as a fellowship I joined had a major drama blowout the day after I joined (I swear it wasn't my fault! Ol' gassy was on his best behavior) and while a good chunk of the ex-members opted to join a half full fs existing on the periphery I chose not to. I'm deathly allergic to drama llamas and just want to play the game in peace.
So, to that end, I've been messaging fellowships that aligned with my goals (10 chests, silver spire, no drama, teamwork approach to achieving etc) and then sit back and wait for a reply.
Problem is I can't tell the difference between being ghosted and AMs who are busy. Some message back and say they're waiting for someone else to message back (their first choice for a spot) and say they'll let me know in due course but how long is due course?