There are interesting replies here since I wrote about the FA and flags. I understand about being nervous that you could accidentally pull a flag.
I do think the idea of staying as a fellow is a good idea. I am an older {age} player, and at any age, it is too easy to just get right near the flag. Seriously, I don't know what I can do now that I did as a fellow. I always helped new players and can do more with trades since I have grown in the game. To me, it is just a title. Stress none of us need! However, I am sure some people would not like to lose the title. If it is that important to anyone then with a reminder they should stay away from the flag! Is there some way a reminder by the flags could be added to the game? That would help everyone. If not, well sounds cruel but players who go against the rules made {do not pull the flag} should be sent back to a fellow.
Of course, taking the player's overall attitude, etc. in mind. Accidents do happen but if a Fellowship member all around accidentally pulled it, then I would bet they are already feeling very bad for doing it. No real answer. just best judgment and stress free!!!