Cynthia, if no one needs your boosts in your fellowship or in your neighborhood, then you have no choice but to search for a new fellowship. It's the best way to grow and thrive. Daiman is right, Elvenstats.com is the best place to find a good fellowship. I would take the following steps if I were you:
1. find your own fellowship from the list on your own stats. (Click on your ranking level, and then you'll see a tab called "fellowships." You'll see where your own fellowship is ranked.) Once you find the list of fellowships, then start searching for fellowships that are ranked perhaps 100 points higher than your own, to help you grow, but not so high that you'll be totally intimidated by the other players. (You wouldn't want to ask a 10-chest fs, for example, to accept your membership. I wouldn't want the pressure until I grew.) Check out the fellowships' intro message. Write down the names of at least 5-10 fellowships that you think you might like to join.
2. When you have that list of possible fellowships, go to Elvenstats.com and type each name in the top where it says "fellowships." Then check out each one. What do they have the most of, in terms of resources? What are they short on? The best fellowship will be short of at least one of your boosts, if not two.
3. If you find a good fellowship that needs your boosts, then check out the list of players. Are there any black triangles next to any names? Those black triangles mean that the player may not be active. You want a fellowship with mostly active players, so I would avoid any fellowship that has more than one or two black triangles. Scroll down and see their achievements for the week. Did most players achieve a "zero" or "one?" Or did they achieve a 3, 4 or more percent increase. That means they are active and trying. That's what you want.
4. Once you narrow in on one, send a request to join. They'll probably be glad to have you! Best of luck to you!