Wow... ummm, I am an Archmage in two fellowships. I don't change anyone. I've had a person pull the flag before I thought it should be pulled. The last FA and this one... So, what I've decided to do is start a discussion when the beta event starts so that everyone can have a say.... But I think after getting a list of participants, deciding the goal, like whether we are doing tricolors or just one path or whatever and we have the PLAN laid out, then, I expect that we stick to it. If something happens, it happens. This is a game, after all. I've made mistakes, so I'm not gonna have a fit if someone else makes a mistake. This is a game, after all. We sink our time in it and for sure want all the bells and whistles we can win, but at the same time... I do this for enjoyment, not rank. In the fellowships where I am not an archmage, I don't care what rank I hold. I play the game the same way. I help anyone who needs it, if I can. I do what I can to forward the goals of the fellowship. I write long messages in the chat about the things I find annoying with LOTR, GOT, Star Trek, Star Wars, oh and the Agatha Christie remakes which basically changes the whole backstory... and just do my thing.