It's not really so much about 'commanding' as it is trying to ward off arguments, hurt feelings, and just more pm's to AM/Mages when someone thinks they've been 'cheated'. It took at least 3 years of playing before I saw it, but in the past almost 2 years, I've seen more of those across 2 FSs than I can remember. The one that stands out is one that accused the AM of running a Ponzi scam via the AW targets spreadsheet and had some members falling for their fuzzy math.
In the less than a yr I've been an AM, I've gotten more pm's about discrepancies in kp swaps than any other single issue. In that FS, we're not all daily players, and we decided the group will benefit more from other perks for the time being.
(Not to mention the impact on my sanity for not creating yet another thing someone needs to msg me about.)
The other FS, we're using pairs. It's easy to do at the same time you're doing the required daily visits. It just went to 2kp/day there. By the time we're swapping 10kp/day, we'll have had time to work out any kinks, but for now it's working well. The numbers are small enough it was easy to see when I had somehow missed a day, so I just dropped 1 regular kp in when I saw it >>dusts hands<< Sorted.